February 10, 2011 by annearcher
sometimes i just like to listen to the men i work with talk… they are funny, and wise, and i am constantly learning so much from them. i really am… you see the 4 men i work with are perfect examples of some of the different stages of relationships and they all bring such wisdom to the table. you have the married with high school aged kids, married with young kids, married without kids, and the newly dating… all we really need is the engaged one but i think that even though will is not working here now i got i little glimpse into that last year as he was preparing to propose to anna.
last year all the men had different opinions of what they thought will should do in terms of the ring, one guy said will and anna needed to go and look at rings together, another mentioned that he needed to at least have a conversation asking her what sort of elements she would want. but interestingly they all argeed he should in no way purchase a ring without having gotten some info on what she would want because in their minds there is no way for a man to pick out the a ring on his own. which was hilarious to listen to.
recently there has been a lot of talk about how when you get married you really start to see a fuller picture of your sin, but when you have children it is like that picture is under a magnifying glass. interesting…
today we had a man come to camp for a meeting and as well sat around the conference room table discussing different camp things (isn’t it awesome how vague i am being here) and towards the end the conversation turned more casual and less business. our visitor started telling stories about when a friend of his got married the friend started to realize the seriousness of what he was about to do… basically as his soon-to-be wife was walking down the isle. then it changed to a story of another man he knows and when describing him he said…
“he is so smart that if he is not careful he is going to be without work, you have to be a little stupid sometimes to find a job and get married”
which can totally be taken the wrong way but in terms of how he meant it i thought it was wise… sometimes we are all a little too smart for our own good.